A Guide to Filipino Gift Giving Etiquette

1.   Try gifting experiences instead of things

Experiences are often more thoughtful and memorable because they create touching moments and emotional bonds. The anticipation is greater with experiences than physical objects, too. As psychologists say, money spent on doing can provide longer-lasting happiness than money spent on having.

That said, gifting your loved one with a savings and life insurance plan can help create a long-lasting impression, letting them know you value their life and well-being. While it may not be as exciting as a two-week vacation to Palawan or Boracay, an affordable life insurance plan that provides optimal benefits such as BPI AIA’s Life Ready Plus can give your recipient the priceless comfort of living with ease and achieving their long-term financial goals.

2.   Go for gift cards instead of cash

If you are unsure of what to give, a gift card instead of cash is your best alternative. Apart from making sure that your recipient gets something they want, a gift certificate also prevents your money splurged on buying unvalued presents from going to waste.

In contrast to a rushed, generic gift or cash, which can be offensive in some cultures, gift cards convey kindheartedness. As a tip, remember to add a thoughtful note to the present! This shows your friend, family, or loved one that you were thinking of them and not just going through the motions of gift-giving.

3.   If you have time, opt for homemade gifts

Go extra by giving a homemade, personalized gift, which can make your loved one feel touched. It also establishes a stronger connection between you and the receiver.

Although homemade gifts are sometimes challenging to think of and create, they don’t always have to be so luxurious. A simple yet meaningful letter will, for sure, send love and appreciation to your giftee!

4.   Avoid gifts that are size-dependent

Giving size-dependent presents such as T-shirts, clothes, necklaces, belts, or other wearable items can be problematic if you are unsure of the recipient’s size. Moreover, you have to know what’s appropriate or likable for your friends or family; otherwise, you might end up giving something impersonal. However, if you want to give size-dependent objects, secure an official receipt in case you need to return or exchange it.

5.   Know who you’re gifting to

It is crucial to find the perfect present that fits the person you picked, even though you have no clue what they would like. This is true especially if you get randomly assigned to a person you don’t know that well. Of course, a little snooping about their favorite things won’t hurt and can steer you in the right direction.

As a rule of thumb, shop for what they would get for themselves. Keep in mind that the gift is not about what pleases you but the person you are giving to.

6.   Spend more than you would for yourself

Christmas is a season of giving, making it one of the most—if not the most—joyous seasons of the year. As long as you can manage your finances, spending more on others can give you more happiness and contentment than being a cheapskate and splurging on yourself.

7.   Gift outside the box

With multiple products, seasonal gimmicks, and timely online services, it can get difficult and overwhelming to decide what to give. Thus, thinking outside the box using your strengths and talents can be a game-changer.

Consider designing coloring pages, creating art with your nephew or niece, signing your family up for workshops, or getting life insurance for your loved ones. Indeed, your unique gift possibilities are just limitless!